Connect with others who understand.

Sign up Log in
Resources
About mySMAteam
Powered By
Real members of mySMAteam have posted questions and answers that support our community guidelines, and should not be taken as medical advice. Looking for the latest medically reviewed content by doctors and experts? Visit our resource section.

Dating Delema

A mySMAteam Member asked a question 💭
Finksburg, MD

How do you handle telling someone that you can't take them to where they want to go on a date because the place they want to go is not really wheelchair accessible..even though the website says it is?

So, the lovely person I have been dating really wants me to take her out to a Halloween theme park for her birthday. Asside from the billion of complications of trying to arrange a ride there, pick her up, arrange for my attendant to put me to bed at night and the steep cost of tickets more than… read more

October 21, 2023 (edited)
•
View reactions
A mySMAteam Member

I would ask someone to help me. Just tell you really care about that person.🌹

October 26, 2023
A mySMAteam Member

There are actually quite a few more accessible places than people realize,,,I know I didn't until I started dating my husband. There's even accessible water parks,,,100% accessible. Just go for it..take a risk and a chance. Never know it might end up being the best decision you ever make!

January 18
A mySMAteam Member

Maybe you can check the place out or get someone do it for you to make sure that it’s accessible first. Or plan a nice date at a place you know is accessible. Once you build a relationship, she will be willing to go where you are able to go together.

November 8, 2023
A mySMAteam Member

Well...I suggested dinner and movie. I was nervous enough about the date without adding in uncertainties as i was already imposing on my elderly father to drive us. I dont like him driving much during the day...a busy Halloween park that i probably couldnt get around on the other side of the state at night just seemed like a really bad idea.

November 1, 2023
A mySMAteam Member

A third option might be that you suggest somewhere to go.

October 31, 2023

Related content

View All

Name The One Thing You Find Most Challenging About SMA.

A mySMAteam Member asked a question 💭
San Francisco, CA

How Handle Dealing With Someone Dating Who Is Getting Very Serious...are Not Sure If Able Because Of Disability?

A mySMAteam Member asked a question 💭
Finksburg, MD

Dealing With Government Regulations On Attendant Care

A mySMAteam Member asked a question 💭
Finksburg, MD
Continue with Facebook
Continue with Google
Lock Icon Your privacy is our priority. By continuing, you accept our Terms of Use, and our Health Data and Privacy policies.
Already a Member? Log in